Lots of guys have trouble coming to terms with
masturbation in their lives.
Why masturbate?
Most guys masturbate to control the 'horny' feeling that builds up inside them over time.
The 'horny' feeling is a result of physical changes caused by puberty and can only be reduced
temporarily by ejaculating semen (cum). Plus it feels good too!
Feel guilty?
Most guys regularly get a real strong urge to masturbate and after they do it, many feel
crap. This is mainly caused by a sudden change in hormone levels after ejaculation rather then
the normal mental guilt most guys are familiar with. If you need to masturbate, better to do it
before sleep so your body has time to re-adjust before facing the world again!
How many masturbate?
Almost all guys begin masturbation some time during their teen years. The regular release
of semen continues (in some form) for the rest of their lives!
Can't stop?
Once masturbation begins in your life, you will have trouble quitting for any length of
time - even if you really try to. Many try and then give up because the 'horny' feelings become
too strong to resist. When really 'horny' it is difficult to focus and concentrate on anything
except other peoples' bodies! Most have trouble even going to sleep if they are in this aroused
state.
Fantasies
All guys know how masturbation needs imagination (fantasy). This association can also
cause problems for a lot of guys (feeling bad about themselves). Good idea is to wait until
horny and then only a little fantasy is required to cum. Bad idea is to bring masturbation on
early with lust or porn. The more often you cum, the more fantasy is required and you feel
worse afterwards. You will soon learn a healthy balance.
How often?
Most adult males are fully ready to go again after 2 or 3 days. Teenagers have no such
predictability. Hormone levels are up and down and it is all new to your maturing body. If
horny - there is only one way to get back to normal!
With other guys?
Masturbation with others might give a high, but it will also build up a powerful mental
association that cum=penis*2! In the big picture, you will probably find you are locking
yourself into a powerful relationship path that you don't realise is happening and then
difficult to undo!
Porn
It is real common for guys to masturbate using porn. It works great, but there is a big
price to pay in the 'big picture'. The porn needs to get stronger and more perverted the
further you go because the effect is not as strong as it was in the beginning (law of
diminishing returns). Guys who masturbate this way will often have problems with their partner
when they get into a sexual relationship. Ink dots on paper and screen pixels have become more
arousing than the real life naked woman in their arms! It is very difficult to undo it all and
get back to a normal fully satisfying sexual relationship with the non-perfect real woman next
to you.
Perception
Almost all references to masturbation in movies, school, some churches and real life are
negative. Always associated with being a sinner or a loser who can't get any real sex and is
probably gay! Every man alive has masturbated at some time and for a guy with no sex partner,
it is his only way to control it all. It is embarrassing and normal!
Dad advice
Use Masturbation to control hormonal pressure, otherwise, when you are getting around
horny all the time, your judgment is affected and you could make some bad decisions (thinking
from between your legs and not from your brain). Even ugly girls can turn you on when you are
super-horny!
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